I was having a discussion with a coworker last week and we came across the topic of “female players”. Now I’m not sure if you all are familiar with it, heck I mean I would look at you crazy if you weren’t. I don’t know if there is a true definition for it but if I were to try and define it, I would say “a heartless female with a lack of emotion for relationships with males”. But anyway, he was telling how he had a girl stay the night with him and he asked her if she wanted him to drive her home & she replied “no, my boyfriend is picking me up, he thinks you are my cousin”. I wish you all could see his face but it was filled with anger, while I was just sitting there cracking up.
I don’t know if you all are witnessing it but females are beginning to trade places and become the ‘player’. Personally, I have experienced this female player persona & I must say I kind of loved it…LOL. I loved not having to answer to anyone and having my back ups in case my main squeeze didn’t act right. My main concern was keeping my feelings out of the whole situation. I struggled with that and ended up hurting them both. Now that I’m back on the market, I’m finding myself drifting back to this female player despite my prior experience. But this time around, I vow to not hurt anyone.
Gots to keep my pimp hand strong. LOL.
Thoughts? Comments? Are you a female player?